We all set out these goals or resolutions for the new year and in the past I've always felt superficial about what I wanted to achieve throughout the year. Yeah it would be nice to lose this much weight or yeah it would be cool if I could fit into a size small shirt and blah blah blah. But why was I setting those goals? For other people, for myself, or for what I thought society wanted me to look/be like. But now, the older I get and the less I care about what "I should look